So, this place is far away and is coed drug rehab. Opiode is drug of choice. I sent her a message on Thanksgiving and she left a voicemail the following day. She contacted me yesterday and was angry at me for asking if she okay and why did you ghost me. Her voicemail was clear about her having ten minutes a day with her phone. And only one call where we actually talked. This is her third rodeo and it wasn’t like this before. She was annoyed with me and hung up on me after volunteering me to be at the airport, no specific date mentioned yet. My gut tells me shes hooked up with another guy and has given him her emotional side as most women can only do that with one man at a time. All those days and she couldn’t even text me? The lack of effort or concern about me needing to know if she was okay was completely gone. I didn’t recognize her voice. I get people need space to go through treatment but, a simple text is a good thing s I only wanted to support her. Nothing at all on her end besides the phone call. This may sound selfish but, I feel slighted and completely disrespected. Im not picking her up as I feel she is definitely cheating and that guy should be able to handle this. Idk.
Gf ghosted me in coed rehab
@Scotters858 - it’s been a couple days, how are you doing today? Have you heard from your loved one at all? Early recovery is such a tough time on everyone, especially when they’re in rehab getting to take care of themselves and oftentimes, the partners are left feeling like they’re picking up the pieces. How are you taking care of yourself during this time?
She called me and left a voicemail. Tomorrow is her departure date. I was supposed to pick her up and bring her home, but there’s just no communication really at all. Sometimes, a high intuition is just miserable. It’s obvious she’s avoiding me because of the relationships that are encouraged crossed the line and she can’t speak to me about it. Regardless, I just need her to take recovery seriously, concerning our daughter let alone herself. I’m not communicating with support anymore until I hear from her. Distractions are a thing and therapeutic communities, in my opinion should be less So, we’ll see. I’ll be out of town tomorrow so, I truly hope she’ll be okay. At this point, I love her enough to let her go. Healing and moving forward.
I contacted the facility and was told that she was in group. Around 5 hours later she called about when she would be back home. Then she asked if I was gonna be there to get her at the airport. I said sure, then she said okay and I love you. I hung up the phone before she completed her sentence. The repercussions of her behavior have gotten me feeling like walking away but remaining a friend solely for her sobriety. Other than that, concerning our relationship…I’m done. I’m not mad or seeking revenge, just done.
Can you update me on what happened? This will be my fiancés second time going to rehab. It’s a different rehab this time and by his choice this go around. Im just all over the place about it all. We just had our second child in October of 2023.