How to deal with self-blame?

self-care
detachment
abuse

#1

I find it challenging to maintain self-esteem when my father violence shames me. I found that every time he talks to me that way, I tend to absorb his words even though I know that the abusive accusations only derive from whatever negative feelings he has and have nothing to do with how I am. Does anyone know any ways to effectively detach from such toxins? Any shares are appreciated!


#2

Hey @Ada_Wu,

Check out this podcast! It will help with ALL the ways you can manage your mind: self esteem, boundaries, how other people act, etc.

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#3

Great chatting with you this week @Ada_Wu please let us know how the Positive Communication tools worked out for you <3


#4

It was nice connecting with you too <3 @Jane
Will keep you posted on any progress