After being together for 6 months, Found out boyfriend (40 yo male) was addicted to opiates. Learned after he went to rehab that he had history of opiate use. Family knew about it and knew he was actively using. Boyfriend never told me about his addiction until he went to rehab. It was very hard to find out everyone knew except me. I knew things were off with him- but he denied any drug use. He went to rehab for 30 days, moved in with his parents. Did meetings for the first 90 days and is on suboxone still.
Fast forward 18 months later. He is still living with his parents. No plans to move out. He works full time. He doesn’t go to meetings (hasn’t for about a year now). Never got a sponsor. Does therapy once a month - to be compliant for suboxone prescription. Iv expressed concern that he’s become complacent. Living like a teenager. He doesn’t pay parents rent and they’ve helped him a lot financially.
I’m feeling frustrated with his lack of ambition to move his life forward. Is this normal?