What wins and worries are on your mind this week? [4.4.19-4.10.19]

self-care
#1

What’s your current state of mind? Wins, Worries, this is the place to freely share what’s on your mind this week. We’d love to hear it!

And remember, you never know how your share might help this week!

#2

Worries:
I came home on Tuesday night to a drunk as a skunk husband, which I always find happens on days I tell someone how great he is doing, and after I try to talk to him on the phone and ask if he is drunk because he is being erratic and he says NO and then I just feel weird about it all…

Win:
After a day in bed, he made me dinner and we were able to talk about it.
Me: How much did you drink?
Him: Truth?
Me: Yes
Him: 2 bottles of wine
Me: Why?
Him: I don’t know
Me: Did you buy 2 bottles and think, oh I’ll save one, or oh I’m going to drink 2 bottles
Him (sheepishly): Yeah, was going to save one
Me: Well, I think we can both acknowledge that once you start you can’t stop. And so buying 2 is no good. And drinking at all doesn’t seem great either.
Hug.

Few hours later, on the phone to his mom for his weekly Thursday quick call:
Mom: You’re tired?
Him: Yes, I was silly and drank too much yesterday.
Mom: Oh don’t be silly, look after yourself
Him: Yeah

It’s still hard for him to understand what he is like when he drinks.
But these conversations give me mad hope! That we’re on the path, it’s the consciousness I appreciate.