He’s been on subs for the past few weeks (almost month), but this week something feels off. He skipped his program twice and I saw open tabs on his computer on a Reddit opiates thread. Yesterday, he flipped out on me because I locked our bedroom door for a minute, got up and left for the whole day without a word of where he was going.
The moment I open my mouth he literally bites my head off. I feel like I can’t even speak, let alone just be in the same room as him without him feeling irritated. TBH, I’m fed up. I’ve been dealing with this shit for the past year. He’s not pulling his weight around the house. He hasn’t cleaned up or worried about if the bills get paid. Yet, he is SO concerned about when I’m going to therapy and yesterday told me I changed and called me a b*tch. Idk what that means. In fact, I haven’t felt better! I got a new job online recently that I really enjoy. I am going to my first therapy appointment tomorrow. I have been giving him space.
Does he feel threatened that I am making so many positive changes? I have no idea.
I asked him if he’s using, but he denied it. When is it time to say enough is enough?