I posted a few weeks ago about my boyfriend. As of 3 days ago, I walked away from a 7 year relationship, best friend of 33 years. He’s been in sober living over a month now. But bottom line he’s turned into an a**hole. Everything is about him, his way only, he’s emotionally unavailable 100 percent for any type of serious conversation. I’m tired of trying to be patient after all the crap I have witnessed and the pain of 7 years. He’s been telling me that if I want to talk about anything serious he will hang up. He made fun of me for joining this group. He has missed a few therapy sessions for himself. He calls me weirdo or psycho everytime I get emotional. His Mom keeps babying him, so no matter what I say, I’m the bad guy. It’s not cool and I want respect. Because he is in a sober house he has freedom, so he basically does whatever he wants daily besides one hour of a daily meeting… He’s 55 acting like a teenager and I’m 100 percent sick and tired of it. He won’t take me seriously. So I just want to be alone and take care of my mentality. Anyone else gone through this?? I feel like shit!! Stupid and used
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