HI @bigg7909,
Thanks for the post. it’s super close to me. I have a thing about lying. My family always thought I was a liar. It turns out I was a storyteller. But lies? Ah shucks, it always comes down to shame and not feeling equal to say where you are and what the %^& is going on. I think you are THERE with lying as ground Zero.
My son, who has a substance use disorder, or, too many feel bads, or too much love, or … when he starts telling tales, then I know he is in it deep.
So nice to hear you have continuation of care. You are doing so many things right. Even if she is lost in her personal shame, at least her Doctor has a different relationship to address in a clinical way.
I look forward to learning from you. It is no picnic, and it seems from this first post I’ve read that you have a whole lot of awareness around people with SUD and how to best navigate the path.