For Partners/Spouses


I love my husband but I always feel like number 2. How do I put myself and my child first? (15)
How do I deal with a mean drunk? ( 2 ) (21)
How do you learn to trust again after being lied to over and over about drinking and doing drugs? (4)
What to do if he drives drunk with the kids? (2)
Any tips for how to shift or let go of expectations? (4)
The ball dropped. Police were called. SO is receiving help. Now what? (5)
Why can't I just leave? (7)
Am I doing the right thing by separating and going no contact with my exfiancé? (7)
What little thing can you do everyday to grow everyday? (9)
How do you deal with a partner who doesn’t get help? (4)
Why does he not see that his addiction is tearing our family apart? (3)
Any one else used to putting themselves last? I broke the cycle - celebrating a self care birthday win! (5)
What are the chances of staying sober without treatment? (3)
I am just so tired - how long do I have to live like this? (3)
Will he still want me when he's healed from his substance addictions? (2)
How do I deal with my fiance who is in the active throws of weed addiction? (3)
Have you felt resentment towards your addict loved one? How do you deal with this? (14)
Typically his M.O. is to “disappear” - I'm unsettled and unable to focus, where should I turn? (7)
How have your loved one's emotional responses and the libido change through recovery? (3)
Relapse right after rehab - what to do? (15)
Do you shy away from social engagements when your loved one is in active addiction or recovery? (7)
Should I take my alcoholic husband back after he completes rehab? (9)
Is it crossing the line to look through someone's phone when you're suspicious? (5)
Have you made a scene in public about or to stop your loved one's substance use? How do you handle it in public? (2)
Why is drinking a bottle of wine to wind down necessary? (6)
Maybe an ultimatum is what she needs - how might we have a conversation around this? (7)
Want to get ahead before alcoholism can take root. What do you all think? (5)
Non traditional ultimatum - how to communicate it? (6)
How do you get the right balance of helping enough but not interfering with your loved one’s life? (8)
Husband started drinking again after 6 years sober. Looking for suggestions? (4)